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PostSubject: Re: Dave Cullen whines about his hard life   cullen - Dave Cullen whines about his hard life - Page 2 Icon_minitimeWed May 06, 2020 4:15 am

Narcissism is way more common than people think. It's also a very toxic trait. Textbooks aren't enough of a guideline - you need to interact with one to know how they operate.

On the surface the stereotypical school bully could be considered narcissistic.
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PostSubject: Re: Dave Cullen whines about his hard life   cullen - Dave Cullen whines about his hard life - Page 2 Icon_minitimeWed May 06, 2020 4:34 am

Also: Yes, everyone says nasty stuff to others. Most of the time, we learn to take responsibilty, apologize and move on. And, well, if you Said anything to Cullens face than you are less of a coward, atleast, because atleast, you dont hide behind your nickname and computor. But I highly doubt most people will.

In any case, Ive checked many of Cullens claims, and it's not that inaccurate. If you still believe that Eric and Dylan were the lowest of the low in HS, that Eric never bullied people, that he wasnt a psychopath,that Dylan was the same as Eric, etc. You really need to scrutinize your own understanding of facts, because thats just not true
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PostSubject: Re: Dave Cullen whines about his hard life   cullen - Dave Cullen whines about his hard life - Page 2 Icon_minitimeWed May 06, 2020 4:38 am

Ivan wrote:
Narcissism is way more common than people think. It's also a very toxic trait. Textbooks aren't enough of a guideline - you need to interact with one to know how they operate.

On the surface the stereotypical school bully could be considered narcissistic.

Not necessarily, because people dont know how to spot one, a lot of the time. Yet, thats not the point. The point is, being sensitive about what people say to you isnt the same as being a narssisst. Sensitivity about how other people judge you is part of the narssism, but not the other way around.


They could be, but not all the time. Some people outgrow their bullying behaviour, some people dont. Its not all Black and white
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Norwegian wrote:
Ivan wrote:
Narcissism is way more common than people think. It's also a very toxic trait. Textbooks aren't enough of a guideline - you need to interact with one to know how they operate.

On the surface the stereotypical school bully could be considered narcissistic.

Not necessarily, because people dont know how to spot one, a lot of the time. Yet, thats not the point. The point is, being sensitive about what people say to you isnt the same as being a narssisst. Sensitivity about how other people judge you is part of the narssism, but not the other way around.


They could be, but not all the time. Some people outgrow their bullying behaviour, some people dont. Its not all Black and white
What you're referring to is called a narcissistic injury. Someone with narcissistic traits could become aggressive or even violent if pressured enough.

So narcissistic people are, to some degree, sensitive. They aren't psychopaths.
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Also: Yes, everyone says nasty stuff to others. Most of the time, we learn to take responsibilty, apologize and move on. And, well, if you Said anything to Cullens face than you are less of a coward, atleast, because atleast, you dont hide behind your nickname and computor. But I highly doubt most people will.

In any case, Ive checked many of Cullens claims, and it's not that inaccurate. If you still believe that Eric and Dylan were the lowest of the low in HS, that Eric never bullied people, that he wasnt a psychopath,that Dylan was the same as Eric, etc. You really need to scrutinize your own understanding of facts, because thats just not true
Eric was too sensitive to be a psychopath. I'd say, like Hitler, he was narcissistic. A lot of narcissistic people are dangerous - including murderers.
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Ivan wrote:
Norwegian wrote:
Also: Yes, everyone says nasty stuff to others. Most of the time, we learn to take responsibilty, apologize and move on. And, well, if you Said anything to Cullens face than you are less of a coward, atleast, because atleast, you dont hide behind your nickname and computor. But I highly doubt most people will.

In any case, Ive checked many of Cullens claims, and it's not that inaccurate. If you still believe that Eric and Dylan were the lowest of the low in HS, that Eric never bullied people, that he wasnt a psychopath,that Dylan was the same as Eric, etc. You really need to scrutinize your own understanding of facts, because thats just not true
Eric was too sensitive to be a psychopath. I'd say, like Hitler, he was narcissistic. A lot of narcissistic people are dangerous - including murderers.

That might be a fair point. I can't make that statement as Im not a psychiatrist or psychologist or anything like that. But therefore I guess we just have to trust the experts on this. Either a narssisst or a psychopath. Something like that(as the experts disagree, somewhat)
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Norwegian wrote:
Ivan wrote:
Norwegian wrote:
Also: Yes, everyone says nasty stuff to others. Most of the time, we learn to take responsibilty, apologize and move on. And, well, if you Said anything to Cullens face than you are less of a coward, atleast, because atleast, you dont hide behind your nickname and computor. But I highly doubt most people will.

In any case, Ive checked many of Cullens claims, and it's not that inaccurate. If you still believe that Eric and Dylan were the lowest of the low in HS, that Eric never bullied people, that he wasnt a psychopath,that Dylan was the same as Eric, etc. You really need to scrutinize your own understanding of facts, because thats just not true
Eric was too sensitive to be a psychopath. I'd say, like Hitler, he was narcissistic. A lot of narcissistic people are dangerous - including murderers.

That might be a fair point. I can't make that statement as Im not a psychiatrist or psychologist or anything like that. But therefore I guess we just have to trust the experts on this. Either a narssisst or a psychopath. Something like that(as the experts disagree, somewhat)
Reading his journal gives a lot of secondary insight. He craved attention - wanted proof he was above others. That's why he wrote what he did and acted like the insecure dweeb he was. A psychopath would have enough innate self confidence and bravado to know. Either way the kid was sick in the head.
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Norwegian wrote:
Its not even remotely that hard to comprehend. It means that just because you are online that doesnt mean you should say whatever you want. It may even fall back on them sooner or later, and it's also extremely cowardly.

Sounds ridiculous.

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Uhm...If you truly think people care what others say online because they are narssisstic, you have no idea what narssissm is.

Does it matter? If you care about strangers making fun of you on the internet you are a pathetic loser. Nobody should have to cater to your feelings. Frankly if it hurts that much just turn the damn computer off for a while and get some sunshine.

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Studies reveal that it's actually the internet trolls that are narrssistic in fact. So if anything,,get your facts straight, if you are going to toss out such argument. Actually have some sense of what narssissm, in fact,, means.


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Oh bullshit. This is the kind of crap that's just used to push an agenda - that we should censor the internet "for our own good".

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Good to see LPorter101 still banging the drum about Cullen!

I think he was on a hiatus when I last posted here...
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Good to see LPorter101 still banging the drum about Cullen!

I think he was on a hiatus when I last posted here...

Cullen is the literary piƱata that keeps on giving.

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People are dying, starving, being abused, and are homeless... and he's whining about people not liking his book? smfh

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I have mixed feelings on what he said. I can empathize with him to a certain degree, sometimes having such dark tragedies on your mind so often can really take a toll on you and make you depressed. However, he does seem to be very melodramatic. He has control over what he does with his life. He's not forced to attend interviews or discuss mass shootings. However, I do feel that he is probably depressed and suffering on the inside. Even though I don't like him at all, I do understand why he feels that way.

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