It is odd that you can claim to be such good friends with someone yet be so negative towards them. My SIL did that when we were in college, luckily she grew out of it and as far as I know only has stellar things to say about me LOL.
Maybe the Chatfield thing was a hacking incident.
I was also thinking about when the time Dylan got mad and stormed out of class. He hated being embarrassed and sometimes teachers can think good natured ribbing with their students is okay. When I was in HS I left many classes when the teacher would mock me and thought it was funny. I still got good grades and stuff but I couldn't laugh at myself.
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