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 How do I help my friend that witnessed a murder?

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PostSubject: How do I help my friend that witnessed a murder?   How do I help my friend that witnessed a murder? Icon_minitimeFri Jun 26, 2020 8:56 pm

One of my good friends witnessed a murder recently and has lost friends because of it. I don't want to get into details, but due to the situation I'm almost certain they will experience survivors guilt at some point.
I want to be a good friend and try to help them but I'm not very good at this sort of stuff, and I know there's only so much that I can do, like just being supportive and being there for them. But does anyone have any suggestions?
I thought that this might be a good place to turn to for advice.
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PostSubject: Re: How do I help my friend that witnessed a murder?   How do I help my friend that witnessed a murder? Icon_minitimeFri Jun 26, 2020 9:37 pm

My answer isn't really in regards to what you can do, because I wouldn't know what to do in your situation either. Is your friend seeing a therapist or counselor? Watching someone die can be really hard on someone mentally. It might be very beneficial for them to talk to someone like that.
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The police were talking about getting my friend some free therapy. Let's hope that actually works out.
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PostSubject: Re: How do I help my friend that witnessed a murder?   How do I help my friend that witnessed a murder? Icon_minitimeSat Jun 27, 2020 12:21 am

Reznor wrote:
The police were talking about getting my friend some free therapy. Let's hope that actually works out.
Paid therapy would be better. Some forms of free therapy suck... I know from experience.
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PostSubject: Re: How do I help my friend that witnessed a murder?   How do I help my friend that witnessed a murder? Icon_minitimeSat Jun 27, 2020 1:34 am

Ivan wrote:

Paid therapy would be better. Some forms of free therapy suck... I know from experience.

I agree. I will definitely encourage them to get some better help.
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