Columbine High School Massacre Discussion Forum
Would you like to react to this message? Create an account in a few clicks or log in to continue.
Columbine High School Massacre Discussion Forum

A place to discuss the Columbine High School Massacre along with other school shootings and crimes.
Anyone interested in researching, learning, discussing and debating with us, please come join our community!
 
HomeHome  PortalPortal  CalendarCalendar  Latest imagesLatest images  FAQFAQ  SearchSearch  MemberlistMemberlist  RegisterRegister  Log inLog in  

 

 My confession

Go down 
+13
spinvault
CaptainMidnight
lilith
Kiwik
Moonshadow
bubbles
Freezingmoon
PaintItBlack
cypressdustwitch
rockiemontana
shades
Lizpuff
aquillina
17 posters
Go to page : Previous  1, 2
AuthorMessage
shades

shades


Posts : 2383
Contribution Points : 81236
Forum Reputation : 38
Join date : 2016-03-05
Location : 13th Beach

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeTue Jul 19, 2016 9:56 pm

lilypadlane wrote:
I agree with this. My husband is former Navy, and he's all about neatness both in appearance and environment. I tend to think it is something common to military & prior military families, as it seems to stick with them throughout their lives. My grandfather was also military , and carried those mannerisms until he passed away.
So this might be a weird question. But what sort of girls/women do military men like?

_________________
Will you remain my fire in this temporary paradise?
Back to top Go down
Guest
Guest




My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeTue Jul 19, 2016 10:20 pm

Not a weird question at all lol. There really isn't a "type". I'm probably not what you would have expected a military wife to look like.

I can only speak to my husband's preferences, but he seemed to be looking for a woman who was loud, independent, and fiercely opinionated. Commitment was a must . He doesn't really care how I look when I'm hanging out at the house, but I also hold myself to a certain standard. After a trip to the commissary, I noticed you could tell whose husband was deployed and whose husband was home by the way they took care of themselves (or didn't). I swore I'd never be "that" woman in pajamas in public at noon. No offense to anyone who does, but it wasn't my thing. The house is a slightly different story. I'm a bit of a messy, creative type, and he's learned to tolerate it to some extent.

My grandmother's personality was very similar to mine, except that she never left the house without having her hair fixed and dressed as if she was going to church. Her house was always spotless. She was far more strict than I am.
Back to top Go down
shades

shades


Posts : 2383
Contribution Points : 81236
Forum Reputation : 38
Join date : 2016-03-05
Location : 13th Beach

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeTue Jul 19, 2016 10:27 pm

lilypadlane wrote:
Not a weird question at all lol. There really isn't a "type". I'm probably not what you would have expected a military wife to look like.

I can only speak to my husband's preferences, but he seemed to be looking for a woman who was loud, independent, and fiercely opinionated. Commitment was a must . He doesn't really care how I look when I'm hanging out at the house, but I also hold myself to a certain standard. After a trip to the commissary, I noticed you could tell whose husband was deployed and whose husband was home by the way they took care of themselves (or didn't). I swore I'd never be "that" woman in pajamas in public at noon. No offense to anyone who does, but it wasn't my thing. The house is a slightly different story. I'm a bit of a messy, creative type, and he's learned to tolerate it to some extent.

My grandmother's personality was very similar to mine, except that she never left the house without having her hair fixed and dressed as if she was going to church. Her house was always spotless. She was far more strict than I am.

This is actually fascinating. Thank you for answering. Wow sounds like you must be a dime piece! Razz
So, I mean as much as it's just assumption, but would it be safe to say Eric might've preferred girls who were somehow classy, had some standards, neat/proper, very dedicated to things and knew how to handle herself right? Not to put trashier, wilder girls down or anything like that but, I feel Eric may have liked a girl who acted mature but was also sweet and would leave surprises just for him and only him. You know, someone his father would like. If i'm not wrong Wayne seemed to like Susan when he was seeing her for awhile.

_________________
Will you remain my fire in this temporary paradise?

anna444 likes this post

Back to top Go down
Guest
Guest




My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeTue Jul 19, 2016 10:51 pm

Haha, I'm a walking trainwreck, but at least he knew he was getting a trainwreck Razz .

I'm not sure about the classy part. Honestly, some are, some aren't. Some do particularly trashy things, but others live a very normal life.

I think whatever standards/expectations she had would've needed to have been similar to his. Judging from his neatness, he probably would have been the type who liked things white-glove. Handling herself probably would've been a must since it dictated our behavior in so many social situations. Nobody wants to introduce a drunk wife to the captain's wife Laughing
Back to top Go down
rockiemontana




Posts : 47
Contribution Points : 76686
Forum Reputation : 0
Join date : 2016-02-04
Age : 57
Location : oregon

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeWed Jul 20, 2016 12:21 am

Unless the captains wife is drunk too... Lol. Seriously i dont think eric was looking for a relationship. I think he was looking to get laid (like all teenage boys). I am sure susan was a nice person, so nothing against her. I think mr harris was just happy that eric had a girl in his room. Happy machismo pride that your son is finally getting laid.... Lol. I dont know maybe my mind is in the gutter today
Back to top Go down
shades

shades


Posts : 2383
Contribution Points : 81236
Forum Reputation : 38
Join date : 2016-03-05
Location : 13th Beach

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeWed Jul 20, 2016 12:40 am

rockiemontana wrote:

Unless the captains wife is drunk too... Lol. Seriously i dont think eric was looking for a relationship. I think he was looking to get laid (like all teenage boys). I am sure susan was a nice person, so nothing against her. I think mr harris was just happy that eric had a girl in his room. Happy machismo pride that your son is finally getting laid.... Lol. I dont know maybe my mind is in the gutter today
lol what if Wayne was under the impression Eric got his v card swiped that night so the next time he saw Susan he shook her hand well done

_________________
Will you remain my fire in this temporary paradise?
Back to top Go down
Kiwik

Kiwik


Posts : 325
Contribution Points : 75626
Forum Reputation : 25
Join date : 2016-04-10

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeWed Jul 20, 2016 12:41 am

I once read an article from some media person who saw the basement tapes who described Eric's room as being quite messy. Lets not forget he was still a teenager. I don't think he really knew what he wanted in a girl. As long as she was pretty and he could have "deep conversations" with her, he'd probably be happy for a while.

One thing that amuses me about Eric and I know its been discussed on the forum before, is that he set his standards kinda high for a guy that's a little on the geeky side. He complained that girls only wanted guys that looked good but had nothing intelligent to say, Yet he wasn't much different, as that sounds like some of the girls he was interested in *cough*Brandy*cough* too haha

anna444 likes this post

Back to top Go down
shades

shades


Posts : 2383
Contribution Points : 81236
Forum Reputation : 38
Join date : 2016-03-05
Location : 13th Beach

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeWed Jul 20, 2016 12:47 am

Although Eric seemed like someone who would dislike girls who were probably too open with showing their skin, potty mouthed or constantly bickering. That's just what I assumed, but maybe he'd secretly like that and would prefer if she were that way to him. And yeah, he's very adamant with her intellectual skills and if she could talk deeper stuff, and yet as Kiwik said he was attracted to the most simple vanilla ice cream girls. Even that Jen girl he was infatuated with, he brought up about stars and what she thinks when she sees and she said they were beautiful hahah!

_________________
Will you remain my fire in this temporary paradise?
Back to top Go down
shades

shades


Posts : 2383
Contribution Points : 81236
Forum Reputation : 38
Join date : 2016-03-05
Location : 13th Beach

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeWed Jul 20, 2016 12:49 am

I think Eric was one of those people who think they can set high standards for themselves but in reality all they could attract was what they reflected.

_________________
Will you remain my fire in this temporary paradise?
Back to top Go down
Guest
Guest




My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeWed Jul 20, 2016 1:03 am

ultraviolencelv wrote:

lol what if Wayne was under the impression Eric got his v card swiped that night so the next time he saw Susan he shook her hand well done

This made me laugh . The mental image I guess.

But yeah, judging from his journal and his age , he probably was just looking to get laid.

It's interesting that he complained about girls only wanting good looking guys. He wasn't bad looking by my own very subjective standards. Granted, his attitude would've been a deal breaker back in the day, but I'm actually more surprised he didn't get more female attention than he did.
Back to top Go down
Kiwik

Kiwik


Posts : 325
Contribution Points : 75626
Forum Reputation : 25
Join date : 2016-04-10

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeWed Jul 20, 2016 1:27 am

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] I think he didn't get more girls b/c he was known (or really not that well known by many) for hanging out with a more geeky/outcast crowd, which is kinda a status killer in high school and will probably only get you attention from other outcasts unless you have a stellar (and very outgoing) personality. Its possible that girls from his crowd showed him interest but I don't think that's what he was looking for. He seemed to go for the popular/ semi-popular trendy types who probably wouldn't give him a fair chance. And that's probably why he was so frustrated over not 'getting any' and girls only liking big stupid hot guys who can't have deep conversations. He just was looking at the wrong types of girls for him. Of course its easy to say as an outsider with adult perspective looking in. Try telling that to a teenage boy and you won't get anywhere haha.


Last edited by Kiwik on Wed Jul 20, 2016 2:20 am; edited 1 time in total
Back to top Go down
rockiemontana




Posts : 47
Contribution Points : 76686
Forum Reputation : 0
Join date : 2016-02-04
Age : 57
Location : oregon

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeWed Jul 20, 2016 1:33 am

ultraviolencelv wrote:
I think Eric was one of those people who think they can set high standards for themselves but in reality all they could attract was what they reflected.

This is beautiful and so true!! Great post!
Back to top Go down
aquillina




Posts : 383
Contribution Points : 74823
Forum Reputation : 0
Join date : 2016-05-25

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeWed Jul 20, 2016 1:50 am

ultraviolencelv wrote:
I think Eric was one of those people who think they can set high standards for themselves but in reality all they could attract was what they reflected.
Could not have said it any better myself. I'm sure the same can be said for Dylan.[/quote]

_________________
I have nothing to live for, & I won't be able to survive in this world. However, if it was true that you loved me as I do you,... I would find a way to survive. Anything to be with you.
Back to top Go down
Lizpuff

Lizpuff


Posts : 2677
Contribution Points : 97624
Forum Reputation : 1190
Join date : 2016-03-02
Age : 36

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeWed Jul 20, 2016 3:45 pm

Kiwik wrote:
[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] I think he didn't get more girls b/c he was known (or really not that well known by many) for hanging out with a more geeky/outcast crowd, which is kinda a status killer in high school and will probably only get you attention from other outcasts unless you have a stellar (and very outgoing) personality. Its possible that girls from his crowd showed him interest but I don't think that's what he was looking for. He seemed to go for the popular/ semi-popular trendy types who probably wouldn't give him a fair chance. And that's probably why he was so frustrated over not 'getting any' and girls only liking big stupid hot guys who can't have deep conversations. He just was looking at the wrong types of girls for him. Of course its easy to say as an outsider with adult perspective looking in. Try telling that to a teenage boy and you won't get anywhere haha.


They did. Look at Kristi Epling for example. She was openly into Eric. He wasn't interested. She then started dating Nate. All of a sudden he was interested in her and started flirting with her. That caused a rift in his relationship with Nate.
Back to top Go down
ThoughtBox

ThoughtBox


Posts : 407
Contribution Points : 85371
Forum Reputation : 13
Join date : 2015-03-26
Age : 45
Location : NY, U.S.A.

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeThu Jul 21, 2016 9:49 pm

Oh boy, just when I took a break from the forum, I see this. They were just kids, and fairly unattractive ones at that. Regardless, they are murderers and practically children, so it's really a moot point. Unless you're Dave Cullen. Twisted Evil

_________________
"I will have a love, someone who is me in a way. Someday ... possibly thru this life, maybe another, but it will happen..."  --DK, The Book of Existences

“Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you'll always find despair.” -- Irvin D. Yalom, MD

FairyBarf likes this post

Back to top Go down
shades

shades


Posts : 2383
Contribution Points : 81236
Forum Reputation : 38
Join date : 2016-03-05
Location : 13th Beach

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeThu Jul 21, 2016 9:53 pm

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.]! You're back!
Haha oh...did I disappoint you with this? hahaha

_________________
Will you remain my fire in this temporary paradise?
Back to top Go down
ThoughtBox

ThoughtBox


Posts : 407
Contribution Points : 85371
Forum Reputation : 13
Join date : 2015-03-26
Age : 45
Location : NY, U.S.A.

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeThu Jul 21, 2016 11:47 pm

ultraviolencelv wrote:
[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.]! You're back!
Haha oh...did I disappoint you with this? hahaha


Haha, not at all. I was just being sarcastically funny. I missed being away from the forum!

_________________
"I will have a love, someone who is me in a way. Someday ... possibly thru this life, maybe another, but it will happen..."  --DK, The Book of Existences

“Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you'll always find despair.” -- Irvin D. Yalom, MD
Back to top Go down
NEXT STEP UP

NEXT STEP UP


Posts : 1975
Contribution Points : 44738
Forum Reputation : 770
Join date : 2022-06-25
Location : Under A Banner Greater Than Death

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeMon Dec 12, 2022 8:43 am

I'll be honest, their style was a whole thing in of itself. Combat boots, black pants, and band shirts are a LOOK, and a good look at that. Might get a trench coat myself one day haha

_________________
Become a techno-barbarian today and get a free catgirl! You need to kill at least one jew to qualify. Alternatives include foxgirls and regular waifus. She will always be loyal, so treat her good.

Think with your noggin, not your n!ggin'.

anna444 likes this post

Back to top Go down
AmyistWarrior
Banned



Posts : 245
Contribution Points : 13997
Forum Reputation : 0
Join date : 2023-05-11
Location : Exeter, England

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeFri Jul 07, 2023 12:39 pm

aquillina wrote:
I'm not gonna lie and I feel very guilty about this too. I do find Eric and Dylan cute and quite attractive. Is it wrong? Am I the only one who feels that way? Maybe I'm losing my mind here but I can't help it.
I have crushes on several school shooting victims.
Back to top Go down
eh8300




Posts : 50
Contribution Points : 2800
Forum Reputation : 0
Join date : 2024-05-24

My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitimeSun Jun 02, 2024 1:40 am

Don't feel bad. Both were attractive people. Although Eric thought he was too skinny and called himself a runt. Eric really wasn't that short. He looked short standing next to Dylan because Dylan was pretty tall for his age.
Back to top Go down
Sponsored content





My confession - Page 2 Empty
PostSubject: Re: My confession   My confession - Page 2 Icon_minitime

Back to top Go down
 
My confession
Back to top 
Page 2 of 2Go to page : Previous  1, 2
 Similar topics
-
» The Paranormal Confession Of A Criminal Case.
» The saddest thing ever- Kip Kinkel's confession
» Dylann Roof Confession video
» Nikolas Cruz's released Confession PDF doc.
» Crus'z confession & Detective John Curcio

Permissions in this forum:You cannot reply to topics in this forum
Columbine High School Massacre Discussion Forum :: Columbine High School Massacre Discussion Forum :: Thoughts on the Shooting-
Jump to: