I'm against them and think they were an extra burden and strain that two hurting, grieving family's didn't need but this is the minority opinion here. People are very touchy about this issue and it leads to heated arguments.
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We're all going to die, all of us, what a circus; That alone should make us love each other but it doesn't. We are terrorized and flattened by trivialities, we are eaten up by nothing.-Charles Bukowski