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 Was Adam Lanza ever in a "relationship"?

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PostSubject: Was Adam Lanza ever in a "relationship"?   Was Adam Lanza ever in a "relationship"? Icon_minitimeMon Jun 19, 2023 12:50 am

To preface this: I have been up for an extensive period of time, so sorry if my writing comes off as incoherent and unintelligible. Also, I am unaware if this question has been asked before, so my apologies in advance if it has.

Before I get into this I feel that it is important to define what I mean by "relationship". When I say relationship, I am referring to the emotional or other connection between two or more individuals- two people "in love," if you will. Thus, I am not talking about friendships or anything correspondent to that.

I remember reading an article that a woman said she had an "online relationship" with Adam two years prior to the shooting. In the article, it mentions how she thought that he may have been asexual. The article reads quite discursively, but overall I didn't think that they were in a relationship. However, the article never actually states whether or not their "online relationship" was just a friendship, or something more conventional; it leaves that ambiguous.
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In his "marriage" document, he says "I'm an ultra-virgin like Mayhem, and the last contact beyond handshakes I've had with anyone was when
my grandmother hugged me four years ago." I find the fact that he excluded never being in a relationship to be quite trivial; unless of course, he was- online, that is. He could have alternatively omitted the fact that he was never in a relationship because he felt that it wasn't pertinent to the conversation. It's hard to say.

Furthermore, the document Adam wrote titled "me" leaves room for further debate. More specifically, the first three pages. I always interpreted this document to be directed towards an online acquaintance that Adam had met playing some online game. He says that roughly every month he would meet someone who typed properly, and that he would always try to play with them. More specifically, Adam said "If I had spoken to him more often, I might have loved him."  in regards to one user named "Soresu". So, I always thought this document was Adam writing to a friend he met playing a game they both frequented. This user -the one that he is writing to- was one that typed coherently, and Adam had loved them for that. Never is it once stated that the feelings were reciprocated, so I never considered it to be anything more than a friendship. However, I found some other people talking about this document, and some of them interpreted it as Adam and the online acquaintance as being in an actual relationship.

Adam's social ineptitude in real life doesn't appear to be as apparent when communicating via text. Furthermore, being socially inept doesn't inherently preclude one from being in a relationship, especially online. So, what do you think? Is it feasible for Adam to have been in a relationship?

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His sexuality was very unclear + he often contradicted his own statements about himself and his ideology etc. In his SBB posts, he once wrote that he was asexual, but in another he stated that he was gay and in love with one of the users. I heard he also compiled a document in which he wrote about his ''perfect'' type of girl. So, it is very unclear what his sexuality was. It's even harder to answer if he's ever been in a romantic relationship or online relationship with anyone.

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yes... with your mom like most people
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PostSubject: Re: Was Adam Lanza ever in a "relationship"?   Was Adam Lanza ever in a "relationship"? Icon_minitimeMon Jun 19, 2023 10:43 am

I think Adam could be in a relationship, but online relationships would be much better suited for him considering that it requires less maintenance compared to in-person ones. He wasn't uncomfortable with flirting online as a joke, at least. But I don't think he'd last too long in a relationship, online or not. The "online relationship" he had with that woman could be a regular online friendship with some flirting though.

I lean more toward him being asexual but that doesn't mean he didn't have any romantic interest. I think he had a YouTube video talking about nonsexual physical intimacy although I can't remember if he talked about desiring it or not. really cant be bothered to watch that shit to be honest bounce

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If Adam fucking Lanza got any and I haven't, then I'm heil hitlering right off a fucking bridge.

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I don't think that he was aromantic or even asexual at all. The thing you cited about the gaming friend shows he was capable of love, granting that what he said was sincere. I'd also like to bring up some things he said in the audio recordings from his Cultural Philistine YT channel. I don't feel like directly finding the quotes in the transcripts, but if you've listened to them, you probably will know what I'm talking about because they're kind of hard to forget. One time he said something akin to "they say opposites attract, I disagree, I'm attracted to people that are similar to me" and later he said that he was "attracted to girls that are pale and have the bodies of 12 year old boys" or something like that. People would say the latter statement is an admission of pedophilia, but I disagree. It could just be that he's attracted to sameness and androgyny, which is perfectly fine. There is something more damning where he said he talked to a 13 year old boy online and he said he could see how if he were a pedophile, that a relationship could spark between them. This one is a lot more suspicious in terms of the pedophile stuff. There's also that chat he had with "SixteenBitElder" I believe. If you haven't already, you should check it out yourself, my gaydar was going off while reading it.
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Basically, I think that he was definitely not asexual, was almost certainly attracted to "monomorphism" and androgyny. Possibly bisexual, maybe even a pedophile. I personally find it likely that he had some kind of online relationship, for how long and with who, idk. But I wouldn't trust the chick's testimony if there's no receipts for that shit.

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